Advice: Single mom’s boyfriend likes that she’s too busy with her kids to spend all her time with him.
So this year, I brought up the idea of moving in together and/or getting engaged. I also brought up that I would like for him to spend more focused time with me and the kids as a family.This is when I learned that, in Ben’s words, the beauty of our relationship is that I have so much else going on and he is able to have time for himself. He doesn’t see himself as a stepparent and has no intention of being one.
Otherwise, from my position of safe detachment, I’m not as alarmed by what Ben said, and even see some beauty in it. Peeking out from the wreckage. The reason for that is the relationship itself, as-is, or what it was all along and up to the point of Ben’s bomb-drop. You were both really happy with it. Such loving compatibility is a bit of pretty-greatness that I fear you’re not giving due credit. Think about it: You’re upset you and Ben don’t share the same vision of what your togethernessWhich means, by definition, your disagreement is over something that wasn’t yet and may never have become real.
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