Dear Amy: Two years ago, my father-in-law called to inform his son (my husband) that he was being disinherited because, in my father-in-law’s words, “We don’t need his inheritance.”
He stated that his daughter who lives with him and takes full-time care of him would receive his money.Prior to our move we fully participated in both of my husband’s parents’ care and occasionally helped to support his sister. This was beneficial for her, as she did not have a job or a home.Admittedly, she does need his money , but I cannot get over the hurt of being cut out. Two years later, it still bothers me.
This daughter is receiving room and board, but she is also providing care that has a substantial monetary value. I want to be fair to her and I want to be respectful of the feelings and role of his current wife. I also want to be considerate of the feelings of my son and the grandchildren.Should I check with my son first and see what he wants me to do? I’m wondering if he would like me to just “kick the can” down a generation or two and give everyone all the copies and let them decide for themselves whether to cull or keep.
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