Daily News | Dear Abby | Man struggles amid changes after close friend’s passing
She was engaged four months later and married “Leslie” seven months after that. When they started dating, Leslie was still legally married. My husband and I are godfathers to the one child Marci and Julia had.
I don’t trust Leslie. I think she took advantage of a person who was grieving. She’s a nurse and should know better. I don’t like Leslie, and I don’t like her kids either. They moved into the house Marci and Julia had built together just a few months after Marci’s funeral. I have pretty much removed myself from the situation. I no longer go to dinners or social gatherings with them. Seeing them together makes my heart hurt and stomach ache. My husband still goes out with them and seems to have no issue with it. It has caused problems between us at times. He doesn’t understand my feelings, and I can’t understand how he can support them.
A way to cope with your pain would be to make a conscious effort to forgive them for their haste AND KEEP FOREMOST IN YOUR MIND THAT YOU PROMISED MARCI YOU WOULD BE A GODPARENT TO HER CHILD. The most effective way for that to happen would be to be present in her child’s life in a way that doesn’t always involve the parents.I have a coworker — and great friend — who washes her hair maybe once a week and uses dry shampoo in between.
I feel embarrassed for her, but I don’t know how to bring it up and suggest that maybe shampooing more often would be better. Even when we have a night out on the town and she has all day to get ready, she still shows up with her hair a greasy mess, slicked back in a clip. Maybe she doesn’t realize the impression she is giving. Do I say something to her?Good friends take care of each other and watch each other’s backs.
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