Does he deserve an explanation about why he’s not in his sister’s wedding like the rest of his siblings?
We have realized, though, that our brother was not asked to be a groomsman or anything else. I confronted my sister, and she said it’s her fiance’s choice, and that he has had his close friends and cousins chosen for his wedding for a long time. I said she could have at least let our brother know, as we all expected him to be included. He was upset to learn that he is the only one in the family to be left out.
She went on a diatribe about how we shouldn’t have had any expectations that anyone would be included, it’s her day, and she won’t “force” her fiance to include him . I do genuinely hate to stir up trouble for her, as I know how stressful wedding planning can be, but this isn’t about flowers or DJs; this is about excluding our brother.
And Miss Manners has had just about enough of the “it’s my wedding” excuse, especially when the bride only seems to invoke it when it is convenient.If she is truly an autocrat, could she not find a way to include the whole family? There may well be nothing to be done about it now, but that does not mean that your family cannot voice their disappointment — when the whole thing is over and the bride has presumably returned to her senses.
These are usually people I’m seeing outside of the regular context that would normally clue me in , or whom I haven’t seen in a long time. I feel like it is really rude to grill someone out of the blue like that, though I understand they’re being friendly. Maybe they think it’s funny.can a “yes” or “no” answer be? Miss Manners suggests you politely decline to play this unamusing game by saying patiently, “I’m afraid I’m having trouble placing you. Please, tell me again.
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