My stepson always creates drama by bringing a “friend.”
: I’ve been married to my husband for 33 years and have three stepsons. The problem is with one of them, “Roy,” who is 47 years old and lives in another state.Miss Manners: Don’t they know it’s an insulting thing to say to the bride?
I find it extremely rude for Roy to call me the day before and ask if it’s OK for “Lauren” or “Jenna” to join us. It always changes the tone of our conversations, as not everyone knows his “friend” well, not to mention the burden it places on me to quickly run out and buy another steak, guest favor, etc.
He proceeded to tell me he would pick up an extra lobster from a nearby supermarket. I explained that they would not be the same, with his being much smaller. He then said he had already invited her. I caved and traveled back to the seafood store, spending more money, gas and time to accommodate his guest.
How can I avoid surprise guests in the future without causing more family drama and potentially hurting the “friend’s” feelings?: As Miss Manners opposes bringing unauthorized guests, you could reasonably expect her to side with you.
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