'There are mounds of paper, junk, used stuff, clothes strewn everywhere that she doesn’t see. She carries on like it doesn’t exist. When asked to clean it, she gets almost confused.' orderoochaos
Q: “Why must my daughter re-arrange her furniture in the bedroom and playroom constantly? Meanwhile there are persistent mounds of paper, junk, used stuff, clothes strewn everywhere that she doesn’t see? She carries on like it doesn’t exist. When asked to clean it, she gets almost confused. We get into daily arguments where she insists ‘I cleaned it’ when clearly it is not clean. If I organize it, she is happy for a moment but it’s as if her brain can’t handle the organization like that.
Every person, including children, learns in a slightly different way. Some people like visual prompts; others need to hear instructions; and others need to perform the act to lay down the learning. There is never one right tactic or answer. The important takeaway is that, while you’ve developedthat clearly work for you, that doesn’t mean they are going to work for someone else.
Therefore, if you truly want to “teach her balance in order to live a healthy life,” you must understand how she learns best so she can develop systems and strategies to organize her space and stuff in a way that works best for her! The best way to find out how she learns best is two-fold. First, take a step back and observe what seems to be working well for her in other areas of her life and build from there. Look for clues! Does she color-code her school supplies? Does she prefer open shelving so that she can see all her stuff?Next, ask her questions that will bring solutions to light.
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