'After a breakup, narcissists may keep objects associated with their past relationships not out of a sense of nostalgia, but as “trophies,” symbolizing their relational success,' explains WendyPatrickPhD
, while vulnerable narcissists may use trophy keepsakes to indirectly enhance their own self-esteem through linking it to a past association with an attractive former flame. In this fashion, vulnerable narcissists may publicly showcase trophy keepsakes to gain recognition or admiration.
In both cases, however, one common denominator appears to be the recognition that trophies represent success.Trophies are awarded for the purpose of being displayed—as they so often are in our homes, our offices, and frequently within glass display cases at country clubs and workplaces across the globe. Why? Because of what they represent: success. Winning is attractive and admirable, and trophies reflect this sentiment.
Niemyjska et al. note that both grandiose and vulnerable narcissists may choose “trophy partners” who possess “extraordinary merits” such as popularity, success, or attractiveness. They found that inanimate objects associated with ex-paramours are accordingly viewed as “mementos of theirsuccess,” as such “trophy keepsakes” may bolster self-worth, just like trophy partners do.
Interestingly, Niemyjska et al. note their results indicate both grandiose and vulnerable narcissists keep objects from past relationships not only as trophies but also as substitutes for the associated ex-partners.
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